Sometimes you really have to put in the effort to have a happy day for yourself. But you deserve to live a fulfilling life, so try to build things into your schedule that make you happy! 💛
Also amidst the recent news, I’m not leaving Tumblr, which has been my home for 8 years since I started Chibird in 2010. But if you are, you can find me on Instagram and Twitter under @chibirdart, and Webtoon and Patreon.
small moves pave way for big moves – every little step you’re taking is so important
stop insulting yourself. it doesn’t help.
But what if it’s true
it still doesn’t help. you can call yourself as many names as you want, but it won’t make you a better, happier, healthier or kinder person.
punishment doesn’t work. only positive reinforcement does. be kind to yourself and get better.
YOU ARE NOT YOUR PAST OR WHATEVER YOU THINK THIS SOCIETY OF SELF SERVING COMPLACENT FOLLOWERS THINK YOU ARE, SO ABOLISH ALL THAT FUCKIN UNDESERVED SELF HATE/DEGRADATION/LOATHING BULLSHIT FROM YOUR MIND AND QUIT BEING SO DAMN HARSH ON YOURSELF THINKING THAT YOUR MISTAKES OR SELF PERCEIVED INADEQUACIES DEFINE YOU.
You know what the fuck REALLY defines you?
YOUR CURRENT ACTIONS IN THE MOTHAFUCKIN PRESENT.
The only ways that your past can define you is if you CHOOSE a life of stagnancy, and when you die…
Because the ONLY truth in this matter is that….
YOU EXIST IN A CONSTANT STATE OF REDEFINITION UNTIL YOUR TIME HERE IS DONE.
(Now go back and reread this post a couple more so you can help me help you…cuz you have a kind heart that genuinely wants to help nurture, encourage, and inspire people so they can be happy and you deserve to be happy too…. mufuckah.)
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”
— Anaïs Nin, Diary, 1969
whats the hardest thing you ever had to admit to yourself?
I’m the one holding myself back
“Just because you took longer than others doesn’t mean you failed. Remember that.”
— Unknown
What you focus on grows.
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